These are photos from my cousin’s wedding - I said I’d link to ‘em so here they are.

Aparna-didi's Wedding

Mom

Mehndi

Aparna-didi's Wedding

Marriage Ceremony

Paan

Marriage Ceremony

Aparna-didi's Wedding

Hope you like ‘em!

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2008-02-25 22:19:48

Ah, there they are! Wow, what vibrant colors…

Haha, is the only picture of you up here the one of your hand?

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-25 22:21:29

Of course that isn’t my hand. It’s not wearing a hat.

2008-02-25 22:22:54

I guess you’re right, it couldn’t possibly be yours. That hand doesn’t have a 5 o’clock shadow.

 
Comment by Robert V. Aldrich
2008-02-26 12:32:41

Hahahahahaha!!!

 
 
 
Comment by Courtney
2008-02-25 22:52:20

Oh how beautiful!! You take such awesome photos. *Is jealous* It looks like it was a most spectacular wedding.

 
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Comment by Sami Suteria
2008-02-26 03:19:08

omg so much paan

 
Comment by Lizz Burke
2008-02-26 03:28:35

I want one!

 
Comment by Stewart Turner
2008-02-26 05:18:58

I have yet to parttake in my sisters wedding (god knows when) and Usher in the relatives and the INLAWS! (thunder clap and screams) You have fun taking photos but i have to play the bloody (emphiesis on bloody) bouncer out front of recption.={

 
Comment by Irish Titan
2008-02-26 07:55:53

Those are really amazing pictures, and it looks like it was a beautiful wedding.

 
Comment by Walin
2008-02-26 09:05:15

Ananth, those are beautiful.

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-26 14:16:40

I’m glad you like them, man! :D

 
 
Comment by Niklas Winter
2008-02-26 09:11:11

Thanks alot for sharing the photos. they are beautiful.
There’s nothing as colorful as a Indian wedding.
I really like the Mendhi (do you spell it like that?) on the hands.

 
Comment by Tofudisan
2008-02-26 09:18:10

So cool! What a beautiful culture and what an awesome experience to be part of. The pictures are wicked cool. How long does it take to paint the hands like that?

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-26 14:17:45

Actually, shockingly, those guys are really good. I thought I’d have to sit still for an hour, but … 5 minutes? It blew my mind. Then you have to let it sit on your hands for a couple of hours, but the process of getting the design was very, very fast.

 
 
Comment by Tiffany D'Emidio
2008-02-26 10:25:25

Hey Ananth! Love the pics. Reminds me of my friend Vishal’s wedding in India that I attended. That was the craziest wedding I’ve ever seen. I’ll have to show you my hands all Hennaed up and I even wore some traditional dresses too! Thanks for sharing the pics!!!

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-26 13:30:03

TIFFANY, hey! :D Long time no see! Hahaha, Indian weddings are pretty crazy - Indians really like to dance have a good time! Glad you liked the pics, I’d love to see yours!

 
 
Comment by Jumelini
2008-02-26 10:55:47

So that’s the traditional wedding style? It looks very elegant! These are from India correct? I watched a video in Business class about outsourcing and how it is affecting India, so just out of curiousity: do you feel like it’s a good or bad thing?

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-26 13:36:36

Yes, India! And as for outsourcing, I think it’s a good thing, in the long run. In the short run there are growing pains, but in the long run things will grow. India is joining the global market, and that means many aspects of the culture are going to have to adjust - but ultimately, I don’t think it’s going to be at the expense of culture. Indians immigrate here and stick with their culture - if they can do it in a foreign land, they can certainly do it back home.

And besides, to me, understanding your own culture in a global context has always been an advantage. You see the value of it, and you also see the value of an expanded understanding and acceptance of the rest of the world. It breeds open-mindedness. .

 
 
Comment by Samjae
2008-02-26 11:43:54

Wow, now i see what a good education, and a rich family gets you, because you can see where the leagues arn’t supposed to converge. Gives hope to the rest of us geeks and nerds.

 
Comment by Robert V. Aldrich
2008-02-26 12:33:26

If I ever get married, I think I’d like an Indian wedding. They seem so much cooler than western-style weddings.

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-26 13:41:07

Haha, if you e-mail me back remind me to talk about this in it.

 
 
Comment by Walin
2008-02-26 13:31:05

After perusing all of the photos on Flickr I can only imagine the cost associated. Wow.

I can’t say enough how beautiful most of those photos are. And the bride’s not too bad either. ;)

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-26 13:42:45

Indian weddings can be pretty opulent, but for parents over there it’s one of the Big Things that they wait their whole lives to be able to do. My cousin got a nice one, but there are some weddings over there that will blow your mind.

 
 
Comment by ladyrazorsharp
2008-02-26 14:17:33

Wow, so colorful! The bride is beautiful. Aww, and your mom is pretty =)

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-26 14:20:53

Haha, I’ll let my mom know you said so. <3

 
 
Comment by Jen
2008-02-26 15:16:15

The photos are absolutely amazing. That first photo has so much color, and she looks so pretty!

 
Comment by The Thing that shouldn't Be
2008-02-27 05:53:17

Awesome pics!

But I must clarify: an ‘Indian’ wedding is when the wedding is held in the egistrar’s office. This is a Hindu wedding. Not neccessarily Indian.

Jai Bharat!

Comment by The Thing that shouldn't Be
2008-02-27 05:53:40

*Registrar’s

 
Comment by Ananth
2008-02-27 17:17:38

Man, you’re right - that is embarrassing for me. Apologies!

 
 
Comment by Sid Barnette
2008-02-27 12:24:15

Beautiful wedding…. though I can’t help but think of Seinfeld when I see it :)

 
Comment by Lady Lioness
2008-02-27 12:52:57

I loved the pictures. I’m really curious as to what’s happening in them. Is there a website I can use to learn about a traditional Indian Wedding? Also, what does “-diddi” mean?

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-27 17:21:21

Didi means sister! The bride was technically my cousin, but you just call your cousins brothers and sisters.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indian_wedding is a decent place to start, but some of what it says is incorrect - there are a lot of “love” weddings nowadays as well.

 
 
Comment by Siegfried
2008-02-27 14:30:14

Wow… that’s a rather grand wedding. Quite interesting.

 
Comment by Aeon
2008-02-27 23:58:08

Oh it’s so beautiful, The pictures are amazing. I do like the mehndi and your cousins picture the best!!!

 
Comment by Kyle
2008-02-28 01:31:15

thank u ananth for putting in mehndi i wikied it and found out what it was i now i know just wanted to thank u and great pics, i would go there but im much to picky of a eater :-( lol

 
Comment by Godzilla
2008-02-28 03:51:16

And all the untouchables silently wept.

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-28 10:53:26

Are you trying to be an asshole? Thanks for the internet armchair social commentary.

The day you do something to help “untouchables” is the day you can talk, but in the meantime leave it up to those of us who are actually doing something.

Comment by Godzilla
2008-02-28 23:38:54

Your argument against my critical responses would have slightly more weight my friend if in fact I was not homeless and currently typing this on a public library after spending a day begging people like you for charity so I can enjoy some relative (if not minor) feeling that I am in fact still considered a human being by the rest of society. Just food for thought.

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-29 12:58:12

Sorry to hear you’re homeless.

Whether your comment is food for thought is up to whoever reads it. However, the analogy implied by your string of comments is incorrect. Untouchables are not the same as homeless people.

Untouchables are born into the lowest caste of society. They aren’t necessarily homeless - they get employed as sweepers, washers, and so on. Unlike the homeless (and I draw the comparison to Untouchables loosely, because it really is a bad analogy) in America and other parts of the world, there is really very little possibility for upward mobility in their own lifetime.

The one thing I will say from personal experience is this: Employment for Untouchables often means that their children get money for school - books, clothes, school supplies, whatever they need to get a proper education. Untouchables were born into an inferiority complex, and yet they believe that they can help their children rise above it. To me, that is food for thought.

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Comment by estelle ra
2008-02-28 06:14:39

those are very beautiful pictures. i think u have great talent with camerz.

 
Comment by Tragedienne
2008-02-28 06:53:36

What amazing pictures, especially the third! It must have been a grand wedding to attend. Best wishes to your cousin!

 
Comment by Stewart Turner
2008-02-28 07:47:32

On the thired day of comments Anath said to me….

Nothing.
(Yes i’m bored)

 
Comment by Nekette
2008-02-28 08:57:25

The first picture of the bride, oddly enough, reminds me of a Pharoess, or … Egyptian Queen, whatever. >.>
’cause of the pretty gold headress sorta thing, and the painted lips.
PRETTY!

Also, in the fourth and fifth pictures, is the bride just lurking off camera, or something? >.>

An’ izzat a dance in the seventh picture?

Comment by Nekette
2008-02-28 09:07:20

Woop, I finally understand that picture after looking through the album. ‘S really pretty! :D But . . . er, not to be rude or anything, but what -is- with the huge nose ring? O_o;

Reflective golden chairs for the win!

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-28 10:56:57

It’s just part of the wedding regalia … often times, the nose rings are fake. My cousin definitely doesn’t have a pierced nose. XD

And naw, not rude at all!

Comment by Nekette
2008-02-28 18:42:12

The painted hands look sweet too. Are they just on the palms and going over where the design calls for it?

Having a pierced nose with -that- huge of a nose ring looks rather painful :P Especially since it seems chained to a piercing on her ear in the reflective chair picture.

“WARNING! Not safe for babies” =x

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Comment by Ananth
2008-02-29 13:04:13

Hahaha, genereally speaking a ring that big is only worn at the wedding. After that, a small stud will do … although these days, piercing the nose isn’t really mandatory or anything - just depends on how traditional you want to be.

The designs go from palm to the back of the had - I only got my palm done. On the bride, it gets done from elbow to fingertip and from knee to toe! It’s quite incredible - also, very time-consuming. XD

 
 
 
 
 
Comment by Keeli
2008-02-28 15:56:07

Not to sound ethnocentric or anything (yay for anthro-major!) but was it an arranged marriage? for everyone out there that is thinking of those feudal time FORCED marriages, that’s not what i mean.

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-29 13:06:58

It was sort of an arranged marriage? These days what happens is that the family will seek out a suitable boy or girl, and then their son or daughter gets to have a period where they get to know each other. Phonecalls, visits, and so on. If both people like the other, then it’s time for wedding bells. XD

Arranged marriages are not what they used to be two decades ago, and the prevalence of love marriages has gotten big, and is still growing. My parents had a love marriage, and all my cousins getting married now say that they paved the way. ;)

 
 
Comment by Poet
2008-02-28 20:29:28

The tikka your cousin wore, was beautiful! The other night oddly enough I was looking up nose pins and came across a site that had just about everything she had on. OMG so much to buy!!!

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-29 13:08:17

Hahaha, shopping for a wedding takes forever. Thankfully, I got to sit it out. XDD

Comment by Poet
2008-03-07 23:57:29

your lucky!!

 
 
 
Comment by ariel
2008-02-29 11:31:49

My first thought was WOW that is one big nose ring o.O;; My second thought was, HOLY CRAP SHE IS BEAUTIFUL! Also, that henna must have taken hours. Gorgeous pictures, thanks for sharing :D

Comment by Ananth
2008-02-29 13:08:46

Glad you liked them! :D And thank you, I’ll pass the compliments along to my cousin!

 
 
Comment by Thera
2008-02-29 13:49:41

Wow awesome wedding ^^)

 
Comment by Xan Elite
2008-02-29 16:21:01

There si definitely a strong family resemblence between you and your cousin. Maybe its the glasses. Beautiful wedding and excellent photos! Mozeltav to the enw couple

 
Comment by jessica
2008-02-29 21:24:08

zomg, so cool! amazing cloathing. so awsome!

 
Comment by Bex
2008-03-01 06:12:51

Jeez.. It’s nice but it looks like it’d be hella expensive. o_o

 
Comment by ImperialDragon
2008-03-02 13:23:18

Wow, truly amazing.

If I am ever fortunate enough to marry I will take a few pointers from such weddings as this.

Very beautiful :)

 
Comment by The_Vogfather
2008-03-02 16:16:55

Weddings in different cultures/religions has always interested me. Granted Christian weddings have their own charm.. I’ve just seen enough of them to make them a bit ordinary in my mind. Great pics man and I wish the best for them.

 
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